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Thursday, March 29, 2012

Coulda, Woulda, Shoulda...


 
 
Working to shake off a severe case of the "coulda, woulda, shoulda saids" over representing myself in this custody/relocation trial (argument finished yesterday - judge to issue written ruling eventually)...
 
I coulda said this... 
 
I shoulda rebutted that...
 
If there had been more time, I woulda highlighted that...

Breathe and let it go... let it go... let it go...
 
Did the best I could with what I had in the circumstances... 
 
What will be, will be... 
 
AND...
 
What if the judge gives custody of the boy to his father???
 
 
 
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2 comments:

  1. KathyMarch 30, 2012 at 5:20 PM

    All of us have said these words to ourselves at some time or other in many different circumstances and for different reasons.

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  2. SahilaMarch 30, 2012 at 6:16 PM

    yes Kathy... so hard to stay in the present, let the past lie where it is and not project into the future...

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